12 of the Friendliest Cat Breeds Who’ve Never Met a Stranger

• Lifespan: 8–15 years 
• Temperament: Laid-back, curious, affectionate

Exotic Shorthairs are social, loving cats who enjoy nothing more than spending time relaxing with their family. They’re quite loyal and friendly, especially once they get to know you. And they can get along well with pets and children, as long as they are properly socialized. 

• Lifespan: 9–15 years 
• Temperament: Athletic, social, confident

Many cat lovers are drawn to the Bombay for their sleek black coat, bright copper eyes, and warm personality. For them, company is not just a preference—it’s a requirement. Like many social cats, Bombays are prone to developing separation anxiety if left alone too much and do best in homes with other cats or people who work from home.

• Lifespan: 9–13 years 
• Temperament: Social, athletic, smart 

The Cornish Rex is a devoted companion who will follow you wherever you go. They are a great choice for families with kids, as long as you reserve plenty of time to spend with them. Cornish Rex cats are happiest when they are receiving attention and feel included in the family.  

• Lifespan: 9–15+ years 
• Temperament: Calm, friendly, loyal

Birmans will be a friend to just about anyone. They love to be around others and will adapt to most homes, including those with other pets or young children. They may not always be up for a cuddle, but they’re almost always down to share company or play a game of fetch.

• Lifespan: 9–15 years 
• Temperament: Outgoing, intelligent, silly 

Known primarily for their hairless appearance, Sphynx cats have fun, loyal personalities that often get compared to a dog’s. They love to cuddle up with their humans for warmth and will do best in homes that can give them lots of attention and affection. 

• Lifespan: 10–13 years 
• Temperament: Lovable, playful, laid back 

Maine Coons are one of the largest domestic cat breeds, and they have a big personality to match. They like to be involved in whatever is going on and will stick close to you to keep up with all the household happenings. Their playful, social nature makes them excellent family cats.   

• Lifespan: 13–18 years 
• Temperament: Easygoing, social, affectionate

One of the most adaptable cat breeds, the Ragdoll can be a welcome addition to nearly any household. They get along well with children and other pets, and similar to many cats on this list, they enjoy following you around. Most Ragdolls love to be petted, cuddled, and held and will often relax to the point of limpness—hence the name.  

• Lifespan: 12–18 years 
• Temperament: Confident, devoted, adventurous

Friendly and good-natured, Ocicats thrive in the company of others, whether human or animal. These social cats are not happy being left alone, and do best with parents who are frequently home or in homes with other pets to keep them company.   

• Lifespan: 10–17 years 
• Temperament: Loving, curious, doglike 

Burmese are highly social and have peppy personalities that may seem more doglike than catlike. They are a great fit for households with cat-friendly pets and children, provided they are properly introduced and socialized. 

• Lifespan: 10–15 years 
• Temperament: Sweet, intelligent, calm 

Beloved for their long, fluffy coats and flat faces, Persians are a calm presence in any household. Because of their low-energy lifestyle, they are a great fit for seniors. While they may take their time getting to know you, once you bond with a Persian you can expect them to be by your side constantly.  

• Lifespan: 9–15 years 
• Temperament: Social, friendly, active

The Devon Rex enjoys being in the company of people and animals, and certainly prefers it to being left alone. Their playful spirit makes them a good fit for younger kids, especially those who will take the time to engage them with mentally stimulating cat toys. 

• Lifespan: 15–20 years 
• Temperament: Clever, spunky, talkative 

Siamese cats love company and have an insatiable curiosity. They are a great addition to households with kids, dogs, or other cats. Just make sure you reserve some playtime for them; otherwise, they’ll be sure to vocalize their dissatisfaction. 

Before settling on a new pet, consider first how your home and lifestyle will match the care needs of these friendly cat breeds. If you don’t have much time for grooming, you may want to forego a longhaired breed like the Persian. If your household is noisy and high-energy, the Siamese or the Cornish Rex may be better fit than the laid-back Exotic Shorthair.  

It’s also important to be aware of any health problems that a breed might be prone to. Always ask cat breeders for the results of screening tests for genetic diseases that are recommended for their breed. 

Once you’re ready to add one of these affectionate cat breeds to your family, keep in mind that every cat has its own personality. Breed can be an indicator of how the cat will interact with you, but it’s not a guarantee. Individuals from even the most affectionate breeds can sometimes be less social than expected. Whatever the breed, early socialization is key to helping a kitten grow into a confident, adaptable adult cat.  

Before bringing a cat into your home, spend as much time with them as possible and slowly introduce them to everyone in your home. And don’t discount mixed-breed cats: Plenty of cats waiting to be adopted from shelters are just as affectionate as purebred cats. 

A friendly cat may approach people willingly, make eye contact, hold their tail upright, rub against your legs, or show curiosity toward new surroundings. A cat who hangs back at first isn’t necessarily unfriendly; they may just need more time to feel comfortable. 

Usually, yes. With patience and consistent, positive interactions, many shy cats become more confident and less stressed. Let the cat set the pace, provide safe hiding places, and avoid forcing them to interact before they’re ready. 

A social cat may be easier for a first-time cat parent, but it’s still important to understand their grooming, exercise, enrichment, and veterinary-care needs before bringing a cat home. 

Build trust through calm, predictable interactions. Offer treats, play with interactive toys, and allow your cat to approach you. Respecting their boundaries can help them feel safe and lead them to become more social over time.